A note from the website’s founder

Why archive here? What’s it good for?

In a word: immortality. A chance to create something that might outlive you; to be your own hero.
Also a chance to immortalize people you’ve loved. Give them that gift in this season of giving. Leave this legacy for your children.

I think we’d all agree that we were put on this earth to love, not to kill. But – crazy thing – in the midst of fear and stress, dread and dying, we sometimes learn to love better, to love with special intensity.
We discover things in ourselves and in our comrades, collaborators, partners, buddies, mentors, apprentices, that make us marvel at what the human race can achieve -  at our own courage, humor, determination, resourcefulness, and, yes, our honor, our nobility.

That’s the kind of testimony we’re harvesting here: what’s good about one generation that can be cherished, protected and passed on to the next. And the next.
Not that we anticipate all good news.
We welcome cautionary tales as well. “This is how we screwed up; this is how low one person or one group sank. Don’t go there. You can do better.”
That, too, is a valuable message to put in our time capsule.
We can have the stomach to immortalize the warts along with the glory, the bad hair days along with the movie star moments.
Those count, too, and make the rest of us cherish our flaws, our dark nights of doubt and fear, our humanity.
Medal of Honor nominee David Bellavia describes the moment when he’d escaped a hornets’ nest of a house in Fallujah, riddled with lethal, drugged-up  insurgents.
He felt relief, then shame. His job felt unfinished. So he turned around, plunged back in and found the inner resources to prevail.
Traversing the Valley of the Shadow of Death, David lived both  - the glory moments alongside the  passages of weakness and self-doubt. We treasure both sides of the struggle, and aim to record them here.
They bring us closer.
And this website is all about strengthening connections, making us more close-knit Americans, prouder Americans -   more active, empowered, consecrated to lifelong service.
In our America, no one sits it out, calls it in,  takes a pass, settles for  a rain check, promises to get it done tomorrow.
No way.
Whatever breakthroughs or sacrifices, learning leaps or career milestones you racked up in the service,  there’s more you can do for your country, and we hereby challenge you: find a way, YOUR way, and do it!

Follow-up: Election Day and Iraq War

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Has violence actually picked up since the end of the election? Or is this just now the “hot” news item which was so carelessly swept under the rug by the media’s infatuation with the Presidential election? For the last couple of days there has been REPORTED an increase in violence in Baghdad (see article below). There are many reasons which could explain the violence, none of which have to do with the Presidential election results: an increse in Shiite-Sunni tensions, upcoming Iraq elections, or the new Security Pact which would keep US troops in Iraq until the end of 2011. However, one has to wonder why now? Why not a month earlier or a month later? “… in the first nine days of November, there were at least 19 bombings in Baghdad, compared with 28 for all of October and 22 in September, according to an Associated Press tally.” Has America’s decision to elect Obama as President been seen on the international stage as a sign of weakness? Are insurgent forces in Iraq increasing tensions to ensure that Obama follows through with his pledge to reduce US forces in Iraq? Will an increase in violence do the exact opposite and force Obama to keep troops in Iraq longer and at higher levels than he had committed to during the election? Maybe we will all forget about this in a couple of days when Lindsay Lohan or Paris Hilton does their next amazing act of stupidity.

Deadly bombings hit Baghdad for third straight day

This post was submitted by mmwebster4.

Dryhootch – helping the veteran who survived the war, survive the peace

: US Army

For myself and my Vietnam brothers and sisters, we came home to a country that blamed us for all that went wrong. I quickly learned to put my war in the closet and get on with life.  But one learns that the life you left behind is forever different and it’s not just the passage of time. Your attitude, your value system has been completely turned upside down. Little noises in the night find you getting up and walking around the house checking the windows and door locks. You may feel naked, as you no longer sleep with your weapon. Smells or sounds trigger responses in you so fast, even you are shocked. Those around you wonder what’s wrong, why are you different. And how in the hell do you explain to them what you don’t even understand yourself. Wander down this path awhile and you will never see the end coming.            

For PTSD is like a leech, it sucks such a little peace out of your life each day you never notice it until suddenly its dark. You’ll slowly withdraw from those close around you, get angry for people stressing at things that don’t really matter; not in your world of life and death, sanity and insanity. Perhaps medication will help, a drink, a pill today, a little more tomorrow, until there is never enough to kill your pain.

9/11 and the Wars of Terrorisms raised those ghosts in me, and like many veterans, I turned to alcohol to cope, to make it through another day. My life literally crashed in 2002 and it was a band of Vietnam & Gulf War brothers who stood with me, got me the treatment that I needed, and saved my life.

Now we face more wars, and our troops are sent back again and again and again. And soon they will realize the war they thought they left behind, in fact came home with them. Dryhootch.org is a veteran’s nonprofit offering a veterans peer to peer counseling center centered on the social space of a coffee house. VA mental health professionals have embraced this model as a way to reach out, to connect with our new generation of warriors before they follow our path to addiction, divorce, jail, or suicide.

It is before the leech burrows in, that treatment will do the most good.  This is when one needs to find the camaraderie of those who were baptized by fire to once again sit with you. Those who were with you in the darkest of times, who feel your pain, your fears, your heartaches. You don’t have to finish a sentence if you can’t find the words, or you can’t put your heart back in your chest. They can finish it for you, because they’ve been there. And there will be those who came before you, who have walked your path and found a way out. And you will listen to him or her, for “We few, we happy few, we band of brothers; for he (she) to-day that sheds his blood with me shall be my brother.” They, like you have been shot between the eyes. Only they can see that wound, that invisible scar of this shit storm no one else can see, and only they can show you the path back.

This post was submitted by Bob Curry.

IAVA Second Annual Heroes Gala

“IAVA is excited to announce that our Second Annual Heroes Gala will be held on Wednesday, November 12. The evening supports Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans of America (IAVA), the nation’s first and largest non-profit, nonpartisan group representing the troops and veterans of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. The event, a cocktail reception held at Gotham Hall in New York City, coincides with Veterans Day and IAVA’s extensive Veterans Week activities and media. The evening provides a special opportunity to bring together IAVA’s leadership, benefactors, member veterans, dedicated supporters and distinguished members of the veterans’ community.”

Full Details can be found at http://www.iavaheroesgala.org/

Veteran’s Day 2008 - New York City

In a couple of days it will be November 11, 2008 - Veteran’s Day. The theme for this year’s parade is “Legacy of Honor” - thanks to UnitedWarVeterans.org. The opening cermeony will be from 10:00 - 11:00am at the Eternal Light Monument at Madison Square Park (Fifth Ave. and 24th Street). The parade is on 5th Ave from 26th to 56th from 11:30AM - 3:00PM.

Since I’m a vet I guess we all get to have breakfast with Mikey and all our old buddies (there’s a morning breakfast with Mayor (Mikey) Bloomberg by invitation only - must have gotten lost in the mail). Breakfast starts at 8:30 sharp at Gracie Mansion (what a dump, you think they could have picked a nicer spot), so don’t be late or else you might not get any chow.

But seriously, if you would like to participate you’ll need to fill out an application (see below for details). What’s up with these ROTC babies, I thought this was for veterans. It’s all good, everyone’s welcome in my opinion. I just don’t think ROTC should be walking in the parade - unless they got a CIB and a combat patch (82 11B-1P).

So come-on out and enjoy the parade.

Veteran’s Day Parade - Legacy of Honor

Veteran’s Day Parade - Application for particpating

This post was submitted by mmwebster4.